Your love story, beautifully produced

At Cue the Vows, my mission is to create wedding ceremonies that feel unmistakably you.

Honest, joyful, meaningful and beautifully human. As a Humanist celebrant, I believe the most powerful ceremonies are rooted in real stories, shared values, and genuine connection - not scripts or cliches, or tradition for tradition’s sake.

That means taking the time to get to know you, so that when we meet on your wedding day, I’m a familiar face and a calming influence.

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LEGAL CEREMONY vs HUMANIST CEREMONY

Are my ceremonies legally binding? NO

Are my ceremonies dull and predictable? NO

Too often the ceremony is considered the boring bit, which I can understand if couples and guests alike think that a wedding ceremony is all about celebrating the signing of a legal document. It is not.

It is about celebrating your love for one another, the promises you are making and the journey you’re about to take through life as a married couple. The ceremony should set the tone for the rest of your day.

With Cue the Vows, every couple gets a ceremony that reflects who they are, how they love and what they believe in. Inclusive, personal, and delivered with warmth and confidence, each celebration is written from scratch and performed with care - because this isn’t just another hour in the queue, it’s your moment, and it deserves to be unforgettable.

The process

Let’s make this as simple as possible, no-one wants added stress when planning a wedding.

This should be the fun part, the bit where you think about why you’re getting married, what it means to both of you and how you’d like your guests to feel on the day. Remember, they are there to celebrate your love too, so they should feel involved. My ceremonies do just that, I want to tell your story, your way, whilst making it fully inclusive for everyone present.

So in three simple steps this is how it works:

WE CONNECT - a relaxed chat to see if we’re the right fit.

WE SHAPE YOUR STORY - I write the ceremony that sounds like you, not a template.

WE CUE THE MOMENT - on the day I take care of timing, flow and energy - quietly and confidently. You show up. I take care of the rest.

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Make it different

Bride and groom participating in a wedding ceremony with officiant in a decorated indoor setting, with seated guests in the background.

There are so many ways to make your ceremony memorable and unique. From having a family member or friend do a reading or recite a poem, to traditional symbolic actions like handfasting, candle lighting, ring warming, or even planting a tree, these are lovely ways to involve your guests and make it feel inclusive.

You’ve probably seen versions of these on Instagram, TikTok, or Pinterest, but why not add your own ideas? Maybe start with a singalong to kick off the proceedings, or a quiz to see which guest knows you best.

Whatever your style - romantic or theatrical - comedic or sincere, There are countless ways to make it your own, especially with a little help from me.

Check out how it works

“We really couldn’t have asked for more from you, either on the day itself or the months leading up to it - you couldn’t have done a better job.

We are very jealous of all your future couples.”

— Ellie and Tom

A wedding ceremony taking place in a room with high ceilings, large arched windows, and pinkish walls. The bride and groom stand facing each other in front of seated guests. The bride wears a white dress, and the groom wears a dark suit. There is a woman seated at a table behind the couple, officiating the ceremony, and flowers are arranged near the windows.